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Talking to Your Doctor about Alzheimer’s Disease

Worried about memory loss—either in yourself or a loved one? It’s not easy to talk about cognitive changes, but early conversations about Alzheimer’s with your family doctor are important. Whether you’re noticing signs of forgetfulness or struggling with confusion, bringing up Alzheimer’s with your doctor can lead to an earlier diagnosis. An earlier diagnosis often means better treatment options and improved quality of life.

Why it is important to speak up about memory concerns

Many people hesitate to talk about memory issues, thinking they’re just a normal part of aging. While some forgetfulness is typical, persistent cognitive changes can signal something more serious, like Alzheimer’s disease (the most common type of dementia).

Early detection can:

  • Provide you or your loved one access to medications that may help slow the progression of Alzheimer’s disease
  • Allow you time to plan for the future
  • Offer you and your loved ones emotional and educational support
  • Improve safety and quality of life

How to prepare for your doctor’s appointment

Being prepared for your appointment can make the conversation more productive. Here are a few things you’ll want to do before your visit:

  • Track symptoms: Note when memory issues started, how often they occur, and what specific challenges you’re seeing.
  • List medications: Bring a complete list of current prescriptions and over-the-counter supplements.
  • Gather family history: Let your doctor know if Alzheimer’s or other cognitive disorders run in the family.
  • Bring a support person: Having someone with you can help provide another perspective and take notes.

What to expect during the visit

The doctor will likely start with a full medical history and cognitive assessment. You or your loved one may be asked questions about memory, mood, problem-solving, and language skills. Some other diagnostic tools may include:

  • Testing blood biomarkers (substances in the blood that help diagnose and predict Alzheimer’s disease)
  • Brain imaging (to check for changes in your brain structure)

Questions about Alzheimer’s to ask your doctor

Being prepared with questions can help you get the most from your appointment. Some questions to guide your visit could include:

  • What could be causing these memory problems?
  • What tests will help diagnose the issue?
  • Could it be Alzheimer’s or another type of dementia?
  • What treatments are available if it is Alzheimer’s?
  • What lifestyle changes might help?
  • How often should we follow up?
  • Are there local resources or support groups?

Supporting a loved one through the process

If you’re helping a family member, try to approach the topic gently. Express concern from a place of love and reassure them that getting answers can help. Let them take the lead during the visit if they’re comfortable but be ready to speak up if they need support.

Start the conversation

Talking to your doctor about Alzheimer’s may feel overwhelming, but it’s an important first step toward answers and support. Early conversations can lead to a clearer diagnosis, better treatment options, and more control over what comes next.

Resources

Us Against Alzheimer’s Brain Guide

AAFP Cognitive Care Guide

Alzheimer’s Association

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